Saturday, October 30, 2010

Amazing!


"All good men are happy when they choose to be their own authors. Those who choose to have others edit their pathways, must live on the edge of another man's sword."


We often let friends, family, even strangers, who are only looking at things logically, or on the earthly way give us advice, we follow it. Each of us have a wonderful intuitiveness of our own that tells us what we need to know, what we are desiring, is that absolute great way to live. This will make us happy if we chose our path, follow it, wait for it to happen.
Now we don't have to be impatient, shy or worry anymore about the situations we are in. NOW is the time when we can listen to the right messages, follow these messages, and start building toward our future. We have the inner voices to guide us, to prepare our hearts for what we want, we need. We can listen to good spiritual advice, let spirit lead us. Today starts the new day. Today we can see the miracles that will come no matter what outsiders tell us , no matter what others say , we will sail along our path, without impatience, without shyness,without worry we are wrong, but to achieving our dreams.

May You all have a wonderful weekend.... another Endless rain in Southern California, but it's all good - I still love the weather.

Sending you all alot of Love and Light ,
Ann

Wednesday, October 20, 2010

Something to Ponder....


"Take control of your destiny. Believe in yourself. Ignore those who try to discourage you. Avoid negative sources, people, places, things and habits. Don't give up and don't give in."


We are set on a path.
we are destined to certain things, people, no matter how hard we try, our path goes back to lead us to being who, what and where we are suppose to be .
We want to fight it.
We say that we are NOT, no we are NEVER, yet still when we are destined for this path, this is right back where we want to go. recently someone i was talking to told me, "I never say never anymore, because as sure as I do, I do what I said I would NEVER Do! " Goodness. We really mean it . Yet, we must have thoughts in our head, or we wouldn't even be thinking, worrying about it. Especially when love is involved. We love who we love. Yes, maybe they aren't perfect BY ANY MEANS.

If we really think about it, what is our part in it as well.

The key to success, the key to happiness, is to keep believing, keep focusing, to not give up and not give in!


I AM IN CONTROL OF MY DESTINY... MY VERY OWN SELF...WHEN I HEAR NEGATIVITY , I JUST IGNORE IT FROM NOW ON , IT'S NOT WORTH MY TIME ANYMORE. WHEN PROBLEMS ARISES - I ALREADY HAVE 5 DIFFERENT PLANS IN MY HEAD ON WHAT TO DO NEXT ,STEP BY STEP THAT I NEEDED TO DO. AND IN THE END OF THE DAY, I GO TO CHURCH , LIGHT A WHITE CANDLE IN THE ALTAR THEN DO MY LIQUID PRAYERS. NO ONE CAN BRING ME DOWN , IT HAS BEEN PROVEN FOR SO MANY YEARS...WHEN THE DEVIL TRIES TO STRIKE ON ME , I HAVE MY ARCHANGELS WHO SHIELDS ME AND PROTECT ME AT ALL TIMES.
I AM MORE FOCUS ON WHAT I REALLY WANT THAT IS GOOD FOR MYSELF AND FOR MY CHILDREN.

It's been a very busy week still trying to settle in ....Wishing you all the best!

Sending you all alot of Love and Light,
Ann

Tuesday, October 19, 2010

Thought of the day

A FAMILY is not a name for a group of people, but the quality of relationships between them.
Relationships grounded in mutual love, trust, caring and forgiveness.
In all the ups and all the downs of life. Look closely,
-who is really your family, and who in truth are just strangers in for the ride?



I am very Thankful for my family and Blessed to have them.

Sending you all alot of love and light,
Ann

Saturday, October 16, 2010

Fears


"Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming 'WOW What a Ride!'"

Then we are overly cautious, fears can prevent us from experiencing life as we are meant to be. This anxieties can manifest and prevent us from meeting people, getting the right job or simply trying new things.

The best way to identify and to understand what they are is to ask questions. 'What am I afraid off? Why am I afraid off? And what can I do to change this" The first step in healing is no admit that there are issues that need to be dealt with. Be honest about it, the truth has a wonderful way of setting one's mind free.
I refuse to be a prisoner of my fears....

So, come on, what are you afraid off? Grab the life by the horns, and let's go for a ride...

Have a Wonderful weekend!!

Sending you all alot of Love and Light,
Ann


***FYI***
VENUS IN RETROGRADE
With Venus, the planet of love, officially went retrograde in the sign of her detriment. In other words, while Venus in Scorpio may relate to sex and intensity, the sign does not favor the planet that rules love. The planets are lining up to weed the negative relationships out of your life and enable you to make room for something more positive. Reality will be the key word, and it is not always what we want to see. The good relationships will become stronger during this period, and it is a time to work through issues and create more balance.

Karma and Fate in Relationships

In a general sense when Venus retrogrades love energy becomes more intense and the drama can begin. It is a period when seemingly fated events occur, sometimes appearing to be beyond the control of the parties involved. Relationships can slow down or end. Sometimes those from our past can reappear. It is a time of reviewing and re-accessing your love life. Changes occur, and people can switch their affections and partners. The karma (karma=the universal will, what will ultimately be) of the relationship will play out during this period. Unresolved issues come to the forefront to be resolved one way or another



Friday, October 15, 2010

Your Behavior (Awesome Blog)

Relationship tip of the Day: Listen with your Heart
Oftentimes due to stubborness, we are unwilling or even unable to "see"
or "hear" ourselves in the same manner that perhaps our partner does.
When this happens, we are blind to the issues, because we tend to avoid
looking at the real problem in our relationship which is actually Our own behavior
or unwillingness to "see" & or yield to our partner's feelings, or sensitivity regarding
our actions, words or deeds, which is in fact, the real issue.

Because the real issue is about something we did, said, or how we behaved in an offensive, or defensive manner---that we don't want to or just cannot accept is even possible, we spin, or boomerang back to our partner, inadvertently, making what is actually, our issue, all about them and their sensitivity to our behavior.

When hurt feelings, is the issue within the framework of our relationship, and the root cause is about own behavior----making it about our partner or their inability to accept our actions, words, or deeds, does not make things better. You being unwilling to see or accept your partner's point --- because you are truly unable to 'see' yourself, or HEAR with your Ears or HEART, humbly, your partner's pleas, is damaging
in and of itself.

These sensitive times are truly one of those tough and touchy times
for all of us to come to terms with, that can escalate into a major couple
war if not handled or addressed in the right & most wise way. Take a long
look at yourself, accept responsibility & be accountable for your actions, words,
or deeds, and the fact that perhaps even if unimaginable to you, that if your partner's
perception is that YOU DID---hurt their feelings in some way----even if UN-intentionally ---then stop, and with a gentle calm spirit, open up your heart, and listen to the person whom you love with all your heart. Remember that when we love someone ---forgiveness is key.

When your partner tells you that your actions, words, or deeds have created hurt feelings, in some way, regardless, it's important that you open up and 'choose' to listen with your HEART, rather than your ears. It's a difficult thing to accept, especially when unintentional on our part. And we don't want to accept the fact that 'that' was even a real possibility, because in our mind, we love that person so much, that to us it seems utterly a real impossibility to ever do such a thing, or hurt them in the manner they are suggesting.

Not a single one of us is perfect. When you are open to the fact that because you are human, it is likely that you have the ability to behave in a way that can be offensive or defensive, toward others, at times, especially our partners. And for one reason, we are 'human', and it's human to be selfish, self-centered, filled with pride, unyielding, and uncompromising, at times, even if we 'are unable' to see that side of our nature, ourselves.

Wednesday, October 13, 2010

" Your Mind has the POWER to CHANGE Your LIFE"


Often times we chose to rather sit in our comfort zone eventhough it is not serving as any good anymore. Because of our FEAR of the unknown we intend to just be content and lived unhappily. For me, I'd always wanted to try my best and set aside my fear-I am love challenges- I'm kinda like a junkie to that! But of course, I do pray alot and of course ask God for guidance.

Sometimes all we have to do is get out of the comfort zone - and see what's out there - you'll never know there's more exciting life awaits for you out there.

Be true to yourself and live life from the heart. You will never fail if you are true to who you are and you live your faith, whatever that faith may be.

I love every minute being back here in CA- I am very thankful that GOD has been so good to me and my family.

BE POSITIVE ....BE STRONG...AND HAVE FAITH.

Sending you all alot of love and light,
Ann

Monday, October 4, 2010

My friend emailed me this about my New Beginnings in CA

Ann, LIfe will move us forward. Step by step. Piece by piece it unfolds.

One of the safest ways is to trust in our Heavenly Father, guiding us and leading us. That no matter what outer appearances may be to know that by diving into our hearts with genuine prayer our lives can be changed.

Allow harmony and peace to flow in your life and a mate of equal measure will be drawn to you.

No need to harbor vengence, or hatred, God has asked of us that he be the one to mete out such judgments.

He asked for us to find our peace, our joy, and to love all. Remain innocent like little children.

This is such an exciting time in your life. Expect good fruit to fall from the trees all around you.

Be cautious for the first 3 months. Allow your energy to settle in California first. Then your vibration will be in alignment with more attractive choices for long term happiness.

Leave the past in TX, and move foward into this exciting new chapter of your life.

Many blessings,
Cali Rose



Thank you so much!! Very Inspiring! You have always been there for me... I just remembered the other day reading my notes of what you told me from last summer when i was planning to move to CA that to be careful on things i write in my blog. Because someone will do their best effort to " ditch" me because someone will be very jealous and insecure. That person might not even help me move to CA... hahah!
I thought it was funny. So my friends since i have your emails on my lists - i will be putting my blog in private from now on - since i am planning to blog every single of the day in CA...with no restrictions!!!

Thank you my dear friends and new friends...I can't wait for the new chapter of my life. This will be a good one.

Sending you all alot of love and light,
Ann

Sunday, October 3, 2010

"You can give without loving, but you can never love without giving."

Granted, God created our brains, giving us the capacity to learn & to understand 'His nature' (the nature of God) by virtue of indulging in 'His Word' (the Bible). Thank God for this gift of understanding when we choose to 'seek Him'. God is Love, & so we tend to believe that if we can 'understand the nature of God' & accept His unconditional love, without thinking about it, then of course, we should also be able to 'logically' comprehend eros or romantic love by just accepting it & not thinking about it? Or applying logic... true? Of course that makes total sense? Again, "Logical, right"? If Only!


Sure, we can talk about it, think about it, rationalize it, justify it all INTELLECTUALLY, but all that intellectualizing, does not change our heart when we 'know in our heart' that we are sharing 'our heart' with someone. And that someone is 'The One'...the one whom we only wish we could detach from...at the same time we fight with desiring to be attached to them so much that we are in sheer misery! We gave that special someone our heart & s/he has it, & there is nothing but 'time' & intellectual/physical detachment that will allow us to move on. We all know what physical detachment is, of course. 'Physical detachment means physical distance'---not seeing that person or interacting with that person at all. But what is intellectual detachment. Intellectual detachment is actually redirecting our focus, transferring these emotions & feelings onto something or someone else. We can talk about how to go about doing that, and it does take time, but both concepts must be employed in order to work effectively.

When our heart is attached to, or broken by someone whom we believe we have given 'it' to. . . that person figuratively has our heart in their hands. It is because we've given our heart to them with abandon, we have no control over it... thinking about it only makes the attachment grow, giving the holder power to control. Try telling that 'to your brain'. Ha! All the thinking about it 'won't change' it. It is what it is and when ya know, you know, 'right'? Think "Duality'... you gave your heart away to someone, purposely or not, it happened. Therefore, duality ---is also what will work in detaching it. By redirecting your thoughts to someone or something else will enable your heart to 'move from one to another' & is the process for detachment. But let's look at whom we are going to redirect our focus on. I don't suggest another person. Not at first. Although psychology will disagree with me on this (what is called: rebound relationships) because, again, psychology deals with the intellect. I am speaking something much stronger than mere intellect. Turn to & tune into your spiritual nature. Turn to 'GOD', prior to moving to another person. Let GOD be your intercessor. When you're suffering a broken heart.

We can ask ourselves 'why' we love whom we love, but there is no logical reason why or what for or when it all happened, it just did. God does have a plan in us giving our hearts to someone who inadvertently winds up breaking it in the process. This is where 'FAITH' must be applied. Love by 'FAITH', because there is no logic to love. If we could actually apply logic to love, then we could walk away easily from what 'we call is love' that has our heart in a strong hold that we just cannot intellectually understand. That is all part of God's plan, too...yes, I promise you. Put "GOD" first, then suddenly, you'll feel better & know you're going to survive this broken heart you're sporting. I'm here with you, I know what you're going through.
God + Time + Patience = Healing = Love.


What a Beautiful Sunday!!
LIVE LIFE TO THE FULLEST , FALL IN LOVE AND DON'T BE AFRAID TO GET HURT ...AFTER ALL ,LOVE AND PAIN ALWAYS COMES TOGETHER, IT'S PART OF IT JUST BE STRONG.

Sending you Love and Light,
Ann

10% What Happens To You and 90% How You Respond To It ( A Must Read)

Charles R. Swindoll stated that Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you respond to it. If life is only 10% of what happens to us we should feel extremely empowered at the notion that we have so much control over our lives. Everyone at one time or another has felt at the mercy of life, chance, and circumstances but you always have a choice in how you chose to respond to them.


There are some really evil things that happen in our world and knowing how to respond to them will make a difference on how we chose to be in our lives. Everything starts with our perspective on a situation. If how we respond to a situation is 90% of what controls our lives it’s important we have a good solid faith to live by.

A person with a negative attitude or the assumption that only bad things happen to them or they are destined to fail and be dumped on is surely not going to succeed in making their dreams come true. But a person who has a strong faith system installed will always have something to give them hope that everything happens for a reason and that evil is not in a dominating force in our lives.

Faith is a word that means one thing but is based on many different belief systems. Faith means you know what you believe deepest in your heart is true. What your definition of truth is may vary. But by merely having faith in something higher than yourself you are in control of how you chose to view life instead of life choosing how you view it. Why do you want outside circumstances and events to chose how you feel and how you make your decisions. Shouldn't your heart and faith do this for you.


If you are living in a place where there is war and death all around you how do you survive? With your faith. If you are constantly being kicked while you are down what are you going to do to get back up again? Some people do not chose to get back up they are the ones who have no faith. They are the ones who let circumstance and life chose how they feel and live. But if they were to have a healthy faith system within them they would be able to get back up every time and move forward in their faith.


So what if you do not have a faith system developed and you realize your response truly is what controls your happiness in life? You then need to sit down and decide what it is you believe in. You need to find your heart and what it truly believes in. It does not have to be a symbol or a religion or even an entity. It just needs to be something that comes from your heart and that you feel at the deepest level of who you are. You can make it up but as long as you believe in it and it is true and of pure intent it will get you through the hardest of times. It will get you through those times because your response will be positive when life deals you a challenging hand. It will get you through the tough times because your response is 90% of how you respond to life and you have chosen to follow it from your heart. Your religion, your beliefs, your views on life do not matter to me nor should they matter to the person standing next to you but matters is how you chose to express them.

Be true to yourself and live life from the heart. You will never fail if you are true to who you are and you live your faith, whatever that faith may be.


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Do not try to Understand with your Mind...True Understanding comes from the Heart
~ Ann

Friday, October 1, 2010

Faith...Perserverance...and Perception.



Poula Poula Malouka Yunanistan+ I love Greece!!

( I am Manifesting MYSELF in "Santorini Island " having a Time of My Life,yeah!)

Life is not easy for any of us. But what of that? We must have perseverance and above all confidence in ourselves. We must believe that we are gifted for something and that this thing must be attained.


Faith is the substance of things hoped for and the evidence of things that were not seen. You can question your faith and even have doubts but once you return back to believing in the original belief wholeheartedly it's still considered to be faith.

The individual need not focus on or trust in the unfolding of their desires because faith has nothing to do with the HOW. It is the sole belief that the event, person, or material will enter their life experience.
Thus being un-wavering is not giving up on the original belief despite of the perception of HOW.

What a Beautiful cool day !!!
I'm lovin' it, baby!

Sending you all love and Light,
Ann


Jane - Ann, YOu are always the GO GETTER in our group. Whenever you want something done- You will do it even sometimes it seems impossible. You never quit til you try first. You hate quitters and losers as well. I am happy for you my sister. Can't wait to see you !! Love you!


Un-Wavering Faith

What is un-wavering Faith? What does it have to do with having what I want, doing what I want to do, or achieving what I want to achieve? Well it has plenty!

Let me first tell you what unwavering faith isn't, so we can root out any misconceptions. It is not wishful thinking. It is not a false sence of what could be or imagination. It is not a day dreamer or a dreamer. It is not a pie in the sky mentality. These are all negitive society views we've place on people who speak of things that are currently non-exsistant because the viewer doesn't see any hint of it comming to pass.

I call unwavering faith DETERMINATION, PRESSING ON DISPITE OBSTACLES, STEAD FAST, believeing that (IT) will happen, take place, manifest, or show up. Staying stead fast to a belief, a want, a desire until it is achieved is key to getting your desires accomplished. Changing our approach to getting the ( IT ) accomplished is not the obstacle when achieving your desires. The obstacle is maintaining unwavering faith despite the obstacle(s). Unwavering faith is knowing that (IT) will manifest, or show up dispite any obstacles. Obstacles should only be viewed as a tool for growth so you can maintain the ( IT ).

Unwavering=Standing still

Faith=Believe in

IT=your desire

Standing still believe in your desires

To you as it came to me,
S sweet


Simplified, un-wavering faith is the unquestioned knowingness that everything is unfolding exactly as it should be. Trust and accept that you are where you are suppose to be.



Bravo!! - I love this blog! Yes, Just like ME .. . When it comes to my family , my children , I am always determined to do what is right and necessary at that moment. I have all the courage in me to believe that as long as i desire one thing and do it - it will eventually manifest itself.
I have a very strong will when it comes to my family. Sometimes, when i paused it will crossed my mind ...how in the hell am i gonna do this? but yet, buy the time i realized that Im almost half way through it. No one can stop me or nothing can stop me when i am determined to do what is right for my family- it's like having the " wonder woman " strenght runs through my veins. After all I am the only strong foundation they have and keeping the family together.

Thank you , Kisha.

Love,
Ann

A Lovely day in North Texas


WHEN HEAVEN WANTS TO PUNISH A PERSON, IT FIRST GIVES HIM A LITTLE FAVOR AND WHEN HEAVEN WANTS TO GIVE A PERSON A PROSPERITY, IT FIRST PLACES AN OBSTACLE IN HIS WAY


LOVE IS IN THE AIR. WHEN I STEPPED OUTSIDE THIS MORNIN' , I NOTICED THAT FINALY FALL HAS ARRIVED. IT WONT BE LONG AND THEY WILL BE WANTING TO COME HOME. ITS A NATURAL PULL.. LIKE THE MOON PULLS THE OCEAN. IT GETS COLDER AND THEY WANT TO NUZZLE UP TO US LIKE THE PUPPIES THEY TRULY ARE... EXCITING, LOVIN' TIMES AHEAD.


Sending you all alot of LOVE and LIGHT,
Ann

Ann, On this day October 1 , God wants you to know ... that you are a child of God. Remain strong in your faith, no matter how many mistakes God's children make along the way of growing up, they are still destined for Grace and eternal Joy.

Onct.1 - Daily Tarot card- The Strength card affirms that my alter ego today is the seductive beast of my Animagus, whose superpower is to master self-control to tame fears or impulses to prove of what stuff I'm made. I boldly go... but a willful heart is part of my secret identity. My infinite fortitude is seen by what I do, sacrifice or defy to stand up for what I feel is right, including admitting when I'm wrong, keeping out of it or not dignifying responses provoked by moral cowards and brutes. When resolve is tested I draw on the courage of my true character from the more savage or humble virtues of my natural instincts to maintain objective by composure. This enables me to hold my tongue against bravado, repress claws at empty threats, and not turn tail in pride against passion when it's hard or inconvenient, but to persuade through self-restraint until assimilation is complete or resistance is futile."

Missy - Awesom-o! super hot sis! luv the smile! rain and thunderstorm here in CA yesterday, t'was a bummer. Luv u nd ttyl. headin' out ..