One of my darling facebook friends whom I adore because she is so open about her life. She tells it all and never hides what she is feeling. Just now she posted a beautiful comment about exploring deep love with her hubby. She spoke about them doing a deep inquiry into their relationship. the laughing, crying, the everything! Yes she is celebrating the good and the bad of her marriage and thanking him for being her partner on the journey. She is allowing him to be the mirror for her and vice versa for him. It was beautiful. She was professing her love for her spouse even when times are tough. She called him the hammer and she the nail. It was beautiful!
THE TRUTH IS THAT.........you can't get to the point of deep romantic love unless your expose yourself 100%. that means your fears, doubts, anger,etc. It is the willingness to stick it out when things are tough. It is the willingness to let your partner make you feel hurt and anger and your willing to do the inquiry to why you feel the hurt and anger. THAT IS DEEP LOVE! that is the truth about a soul mate. A soul mate is someone who is suppose spiritually kick your behind! You may hate it but in the end you will feel something deeper than you could image feeling.
There is no love without the self inquiry. Love heals the wounds if you let it by self inquiry. Love is not a band aid. Not the real thing at least. I am amazed at her. What woman admits that the bad times is the self growth times.She is not selling some phony love story of a perfect marriage Exposure is what people hate but it is what we need.
IF YOU WANT THE REAL THING than be ready to be tried and tested, hurt, angry and even betrayed. Then emerge from it and see that it exist to bring you to the next level. That is love.
Wow!!! that kind a spells it out for me don't ya think? As I reflect, I understand now, how the breaking down, the anger, the hurt, the let downs... we have over come all, and somehow, come out stronger, better, closer. Until, the next episode. I am looking forward to the episodes being less intense. That will be nice.
The hurt and anger leads to balance. It teaches each party how to work with the relationship. It is normal for people to want to have their way. Of course in a relationship the struggle is to find a way for both to give and take. Remember everyone, if it hurts, there is a lesson involved.
Thank you ...Wishing you all alot of Love and Plenty of Blessings!!
Namaste,
Ann
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