Ever hear that saying that it's so obvious that it's inconspicuous? Or the one about "Can't see the forest through the trees"? Just think about it for a minute....the one guy that has totally supported you throughout all of your drama, relationship issues, family issues, issues that require tissues...well, you get the point....but here he's been there regardless...for YOU... yet, you just don't have that "lovin' feeling" for HIM, and you've taken it totally for granted that he's just "there".
All kinds of excuses run around in your mind when you think of him.... "We're just friends" "He's not my type" "He's too nice".......
But then perhaps your perspective changes just a bit, and Mr. "I've always been there for you" looks slightly more interesting because he HAS always been there for you? And what's really the clincher is when Mr. I've always been there for you finds a new object of his affection and now decides that he doesn't want to be there for you. Talk about interesting dynamics.
So, what's it going to be? Are you ready to acknowledge what's been in front of you all along, or are you going to continue to play ostrich, and let the best thing that ever happened to you slip through the sand?
Your choice.....
Namaste,
Ann
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