welcome a new relationship into your life when you have not let go of other relationships in your life? We attract to ourselves what we are, who we are, .....so if we are still caught up with another emotionally, and have not let go of that person, do you expect the new person coming in to be baggage free when you are clearly NOT? If we are still concerned with what the other person is doing, thinking or when they are going to call us, you are NOT free emotionally, so do not lie to yourself and others that you are over your past relationship if you clearly are not.
When you are giving rent free space to another how can you even think you are not giving off that vibe on some level? Do not fool yourself, as you may not be able to fool the new person coming in, they may not be able to put their finger on it but they sense that something is off and it may sabotage and or limit your new potential relationship. So if you want someone who truly IS available the best thing you can to is to BE available yourself, and not lying to yourself or others about it, but being available truly emotionally and physically is the only way to truly start off something that could truly be something as opposed to another false start that YOU played a major part in sabotaging.....
So try to think of a new relationship as a plane journey, you are only allowed so much baggage and any more you will be charged for and pay for. So clean out that baggage, pack lightly and only carry with you what you have gained from any previous relationships that's a much lighter load :-)
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