I Love the Way You Lie

I've heard this song before and honestly I listened to every single word and I thought it is Very good song that it actually relates in my situation- I even thought I hope my ex heard this song and realize that this is the Story of Us. Much to my surprised today after my Chiro appointment he sent me this song. (AHA!!)

So here's my thoughts about this song:

This song is about two people who are very much in love to each other but who allow their extreme jealously and anger slowly burn away at their relationship. I lived one myself, it was just insane and the worst part is that i was aware of it. basically same story relationship full of passion since day one.he had his flaws i know i have flaws myself we humans are not perfect but we loved each other either ways. and as passionate as our relationship was as well were our fights as intense!verbally intense! and after all the fighting then came the flashbacks of the few good times to together, then flashbacks turned into desire and finally there were both of us desperate to reach for each other again and believing all the "white lies" and the cycle continues.

We have all been there right? When the person you love does something to hurt you very bad and all you want to do is hurt them back as retribution. Yet in all of this effort, you are focusing all of your energy on this one person and they occupy 100% of your thought process. One could say this is a testament in and of itself for the love you have for them.

I knew it was a sick relationship as i said before i was aware of it the only difference is that the day that it turned physically i was strong enough to realize that sometimes its better to forget how you feel but remember what I deserve. Although I contributed some part of it but there's no Justification on physically abusing someone you love and who's there with you at all times.


But here's MY OWN TWIST:
(Actually it was advised to me by a good friend Sandy )

How can you make your relationship better? Don't focus on your partner, focus on you. You can't change your partner, but you can change how you react, and act towards your partner. You can make it a point to find the good in your partner and promise yourself that you will purposely look for something good about your partner. Say at least one nice thing every day, and for those of you who have to dig deep you do whatever is necessary. It may be something as simple as saying "I really appreciate when you...." or "I loved when you....". You can compliment them on their appearance, or perhaps something they did like take out the trash. Saying thank you and I love you can seem like work when the relationship is spiraling out of control.

There is not one single perfect person or relationship in this world. Yet there is one single person, yourself, who can bring about positive changes in your life. The world may be your oyster, but you are the pearl so treat yourself as such.

I do believed in second chances.. remember it takes two to tango...You prevent the abuse when you learn how to change the way you handle. Eventually in a long run you'll both learn and understand how to cope with your issues in your relationship.

Like I said in my other blogs - You can change things and still be in the relationship but you have to focus on yourself...and believe me everything else will follow.

Thanks for sending me this...

Have a Great Day!!

Sending You alot of LOVE and LIGHT,
Ann






Just gonna stand there and watch me burn
But that's alright because I like the way it hurts
Just gonna stand there and hear me cry
But that's alright because I love the way you lie
I love the way you lie
I love the way you lie

I can't tell you what it really is
I can only tell you what it feels like
And right now there's a steel knife in my windpipe
I can't breathe, but I still fight while I can fight
As long as the wrong feels right
It's like I'm in flight
High off of love, drunk from her hate
It's like I'm huffing paint
And I love it the more that I suffer
I suffocate
And right before I'm about to drown she resuscitates me
She fucking hates me and I love it
Wait, where you going
I'm leaving you
No you ain't, come back
We're running right back
Here we go again
It's so insane
'cause when it's going good, it's going great
I'm Superman with the wind in his back
She's Lois Lane
But when it's bad, it's awful
I feel so ashamed
I snapped
Who's that dude
I don't even know his name
I laid hands on her
I'll never stoop so low again
I guess I don't know my own strength

Just gonna stand there and watch me burn
But that's alright because I like the way it hurts
Just gonna stand there and hear me cry
But that's alright because I love the way you lie
I love the way you lie
I love the way you lie

You ever love somebody so much
You can barely breathe when you're with 'em
You meet and neither one of you even know what hit 'em
Got that warm fuzzy feeling
Yeah, them chills, used to get 'em
Now you're getting fucking sick of looking at 'em
You swore you've never hit 'em
Never do nothing to hurt 'em
Now you're in each other's face
Spewing venom in your words when you spit 'em
You push, pull each other's hair
Scratch, claw, bit 'em
Throw 'em down, pin 'em
So lost in the moments when you're in 'em
It's the rage that took over
It controls you both
So they say it best to go your separate ways
Guess that they don't know ya
'cause today, that was yesterday
Yesterday is over
It's a different day
Sound like broken records playin' over
But you promised her next time you'll show restraint
You don't get another chance
Life is no Nintendo game
But you lied again
Now you get to watch her leave out the window
Guess that's why they call it window pane

Just gonna stand there and watch me burn
But that's alright because I like the way it hurts
Just gonna stand there and hear me cry
But that's alright because I love the way you lie
I love the way you lie
I love the way you lie

Now I know we said things, did things that we didn't mean
And we fall back into the same patterns, same routine
But your temper's just as bad as mine is
You're the same as me
When it comes to love you're just as blinded
Baby, please come back
It wasn't you, baby it was me
Maybe our relationship isn't as crazy as it seems
Maybe that's what happens when a tornado meets a volcano
All I know is I love you too much to walk away though
Come inside, pick up your bags off the sidewalk
Don't you hear sincerity in my voice when I talk
Told you this is my fault
Look me in the eyeball
Next time I'm pissed I'll aim my fist at the drywall
Next time, there won't be no next time
I apologize even though I know it's lies
I'm tired of the games
I just want her back
I know I'm a liar
If she ever tries to fucking leave again
I'mma tie her to the bed and set the house on fire

Just gonna stand there and watch me burn
But that's alright because I like the way it hurts
Just gonna stand there and hear me cry
But that's alright because I love the way you lie
I love the way you lie
I love the way you lie