Tuesday, January 5, 2010

Does Any Relationships comes with an instruction manual?

Grunge wall with graffiti yin yang symbol photo

chatting with friends this topic came up & our imaginations ran wild. :0) could you imagine a world where people came with instructions? most things we invest in today have them. why not relationships? of course i know its not going to happen LOL .
but wouldn't it be fun to imagine for a moment a world with them! relationships would seem easier right? need to know all about the person go to chapter 1. financial history chapter 2. positives/negatives chapter 3. past relationships/marriages chapter 4. oh & there would definitely be a troubleshooting section!! not communicating-turn to page 17. didn't come home last night page 24. issues with an ex pgs 27-40

Imagine having a lifetime warranty? if your partner is giving you too much trouble send them in for service LOL how about a great return policy? if your partner is defective return them for a new one! oh & there would be a special section where there would be reviews from the previous partners. Imagine having all of that information right in front of you? some manuals would be 100pgs thick some thousands depending on the person. How thick would your partners be?? i know it's sounds crazy & unreal but we had fun looking at our relationships especially those from the past & picturing what there manual would look like LOL of course it would make relationships easier & create less heartache but i believe our experiences good & bad help mold us into the people we are today. if we knew everything ahead of time the relationships would become boring then we'd be looking to trade-in for a different partner.

We love or hate our partners because of who they are & how they treat us. our bad relationships are stepping stones to good ones. in reality all of our experiences kind of do instruct us on how to live our lives better and on those days when you need a little extra insight into whats going on in your relationship you can give me a call. i can tell you whats happening in your partners head & heart .

Peace,
Ann

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