What does it look like when a man isn't showing you the love? Here's a list of possibilities:

1. He doesn't treat you like you're a top priority in his life!

2. He's nice to you mainly when it's convenient for him (like right before sex)!

3. He checks out on you emotionally for long periods of time, and acts like you're crazy and/or needy for wondering why!

4. He's openly critical of fundamental things about you that you can't change! (This is to keep you humble and depending upon him).

5. He seems to enjoy your company, but it's as though he hasn't decided that you're the special woman in his life! Yet he keeps encouraging your being a part of his life.

6. He shuts you out of big parts of his real world and inner life (family, friends, and his past life)!

7. He keeps telling you that he's not good relationship material or he doesn't deserve you but he doesn't discourage you from sleeping with him!

8. He takes no emotional risks for you, but doesn't object when you take emotional risks for him! (Unfair, unbalanced relationship).

9. He gets irritated with the vulnerability you feel in the relationship! He doesn't want to think about your feelings. He keeps turning the subject towards a romantic affair.

10. He rewards you for being "strong" and/or "understanding" when he does things that he knows hurt you! If he loved you, he wouldn't hurt you.

And...

11. He keeps sleeping with other women. He's not ready for a one on one relationship but he still wants those hot romantic nights with you!



A man who has his emotional act together and is truly in love with you WILL WANT TO MAKE YOU HAPPY. It will bring him pleasure. Just as hurting you will make him feel like he hurts himself and he'll try to figure out how to stop doing it! He'll also want you to feel as special and valued as you make him feel. He'll be willing to take risks for your love. He'll want to share himself and his life with you. He'll let the world know that you are his.

Sad FACT but it's all TRUE.....

Peace,
Ann